not knowing the thoughts or reasons behind a silence can be frustrating. to be quiet is something that everybody has the right to. closing urself is necessary to restrain that beast that muz be caged. but doubts lingered, emotions are frayed, exhaustion is all too easily accomplished when we keep too quiet. mebbe it works as a healing process.

but it does help us to understand the mistakes we have made and prepare ourselves so that we never make those mistakes again. everyone can only learn from history otherwise it is doomed to repeat itself and without looking back, there is no history...everythin's stagnant - like the pancake stuck to the surface of a non-stick pan.